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While my home-base is in Colorado—on the stolen, ancestral lands of the Arapaho, Ute, and Cheyenne tribes—I work with people and communities across the Dreaming Earth. You can send me a digital howl using the button below. If you want to know about upcoming workshops, groups, and in-person events sign up for my newsletter below, connect with me on instagram, check out my substack, or explore my Events & Offerings page.

 

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AMA with Holly, Naila, Tajah and Jessi ~ we talked AMA with Holly, Naila, Tajah and Jessi ~ we talked about the moon, soul, collapse, silliness/realness in grief work, and more! 

We’re doing several micro offerings in the weeks to come, check them out you know where. And join us for our in-person August grief ritual. 🩵💛💚💜
ELDERING END TIMES TOGETHER WITH LIBERATORY GRIEF ELDERING END TIMES TOGETHER WITH LIBERATORY GRIEF TENDING facilitated by The Heart is a Frontline team ~  micro-rituals and offerings for June, July & August. L!nks to all events in the portal in Holly’s bye-o. 

AMA WITH HOLLY TRUHLAR ~ Thursday, June 18th at 5pm MDT on Insta Live // Ask this grief witch anything about politicized grief tending, ritual, rupture and repair, donkeys, soul, and more! Led by Holly Truhlar with Naila Francis, Tajah Schall, and Jessi Rado supporting.

SORROWS OF THE WORLD VIGIL ~ Monday, July 22nd, 6-7pm MDT on Zoom // A devotional time where we come together to acknowledge and mourn our personal and collective sorrows. All grief is welcome. Co-facilitated by Naila Francis and Holly Truhlar. 

SONGS FOR LIFE WITH JESSI RADO ~ Tuesday, June 30th, 6-6:30pm MDT on Zoom // Simple songs for getting through, grieving, loving & creating intimacy within the body, the web and the cosmos. A welcoming gathering to open our voices. Led by Jessi Rado with Tajah Schall and Holly Truhlar supporting.

RHYTHM AND RITUAL WITH TAJAH SCHALL ~ Tuesday, July 7th at 6-6:30pm MDT on Zoom // Tapping into the medicine of rhythm to come deeper into embodied presence, tune in to the more than human world and listen for what rituals want to be dreamed through us. Led by Tajah Schall with Nala Francis and Holly Truhlar (and possibly Jessi Rado) supporting.

POETRY AS PRESENCE WITH NAILA FRANCIS ~ Friday, July 10th, 10-10:30am MDT on Zoom // Using poetry to help create a soulful grief container that invites participants to begin softening and slowing down so they can touch into the sorrows they carry. Led by Naila Francis with Tajah Schall and Holly Truhlar supporting.

THE HEART IS A FRONTLINE: 4-DAY LIBERATORY GRIEF RITUAL, August 13th–16th in Loveland, Colorado with Tajah Schall, Naila Francis, Jessi Rado, and Holly Truhlar.
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#GriefRitual #EmergentStrategy #TheWildEdgeOfSorrow #Collapse #SoulWork
This is the truth. I’ve been the least resourced, This is the truth. I’ve been the least resourced, most vulnerable on a team that wasn’t naming power dynamics, impact, and harm and it took a toll on my psyche, on my body. I’ve also been on the other end and caused harm.

May we practice skill-full truth telling and compassionate accountability. May we learn how to navigate rupture and repair with dignity and honesty.

And so it is. 

XO, H 🌈🫏🧙🏻‍♀️
Feeling this. I think grief rituals as I know them Feeling this. I think grief rituals as I know them are wanting to mutate, are wanting to be more free. 

Someone told me they were at a 4-day grief ritual and the g*noc*des were not named once. Someone else told me power and harm wasn’t talked about at all. What the actual f*ck? For that to happen there would have to be some major energy of suppression—like we’re not going there.

I want more aliveness, less control, less managed, less contained. More fiiiiiire. 

XO, H 🌈🫏🧙🏻‍♀️
participatory consciousness entangled perception participatory consciousness
entangled perception 
noetic knowing
telepathy

This is where my work is headed. This is what I mean when I talk about, teach about, sense into “ritual.”

Life is perceiving itself through relationships with each other, with the beyond-human. Fellow collaborators practicing, feeling, dreaming this with me:
@imlikenlichen 
@thishallowedwilderness 
@srjs 

XO, H 🌈🫏🧙🏻‍♀️
I live with a chronic illness and disability. I’m I live with a chronic illness and disability. I’m grateful to be alive. 

Three years ago, I had no idea what was happening to me. I was experiencing the most unsettling neurological symptoms that I didn’t know were even possible. I spent months going from doctor to doctor who were mostly unhelpful. 

I thought I was going to die, and likely would have if I hadn’t found my current doctor when I did. She was an answer to my wild, tired, desperate prayers/spells. 

She ordered 43 blood tests all at once. When the test results came back, she started treatment immediately. It gave me some semblance of a life back. 

Thank you past-Holly for keeping going. I don’t know if I’ll ever fully recover from the medical debt and financial ramifications. I do know I’ll be navigating this the rest of my life. 

I also know that the overculture is incredibly unkind to sick and disabled people. I had already lost a lot friends when my sister died a few years prior because most people don’t have the endurance to stay with grievers through the immensity of devastating loss. Being sick kinda cleared out the rest of them. (Hey there if any of you still follow me 👋🏻, also f*ck you for abandoning me 🫥.)

I’ll never understand why I’m here and my sister, Ivy, isn’t. Why was I offered a treatment for my illness and she wasn’t?

Capitalism is cruel, systems of supremacy and soul severance are cruel. I long for a care centered world. Disability centered spaces have shown me it’s possible. We’re living in the future, a slow, relational, emergent place where care isn’t a miracle, it’s life tending life. 

43 tests. I’m 43 years old (almost 43 and a half). May I make it a few more years and practice + receive an abundance of care along the way.  So it is.

XO, H 🌈🫏🧙🏻‍♀️
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